12 Perfect and Emotional Valentine's Day plan ideas for HIM in 2020 based on your boyfriend type

It's the Valentine's coming up fellas....!!

I bet you are excited, tensed and most of all, contemplating. Now, for that perfect plan to spend the day with your perfect boyfriend, you think of zillion gazillion ideas. But nothing fits, am I right or am I right? 

So why not try this way! By going with the fundamental personality theories, there are four kinds of people - A, B, C, and D.

Based on where your boyfriend type, choose the perfect idea for that "special him".

Personality type A - The High achieving Go-Getters:

The title says it all. They are very conscious of the success they get and set the goals accordingly and strive with everything to achieve them. Because of this, they experience stress and anxiety often. For this kind of person, here are some ideas that make a perfect Valentine's day gift.

A Get-away:

As these persons are always busy in achieving and excelling something, they tend to forget and ignore to spend time with themselves. So why not be the darling that you are and plan something of a getaway for the nearest tourist spot or book an adventure they like. It could be a ski trip or that bungee jump on the bucket list or it could be even a two-day trip to a far-off place.

Let the idea be a surprise but make sure your boyfriend's able to clear off the schedule for a day or two. This could make your trip a memorable one without the backpack of your office along.

Movie date with Dinner:

Again, this might seem very simple on the front. But because of the stretched time for yourselves, this might be once in a blue-moon scene for you. So, make use of the special occasion, book a nice view table at that roof-top restaurant or opt for a seaside diner. Make sure that you both are comfortable with the food and ambiance and the place is not overly crowded. This helps for you to converse and eat at your pace and not be the bam-dam eat and go venturers.

Gift Memorabilia:

Type A persons are very particular about their work and success. So why not get something that makes them remember you always. It could be the cufflinks or your favorite photo framed for setting up on the desk. You could even get him a tie that goes with most of his shirts or a complete set of trousers and shirt itself.

If you are not a fan of gifting clothes on this day for any reason, you could get a calendar printed with your favorite photos or destination trips for his work desk. It would be a different idea yet a very simple one.

Personality type B - Extroverted and Relaxed:

These kinds of people are very relaxed in a social setting and are very comfortable in their relationships. They are also emotionally very stable and tend to make the environment around them calmer. As they are the ones always taking the emotional leadership, why not plan something around that point and make them free and laid-back on this special day.

It is effortless to plan something and gift for the personality type B people. But at the same time, as they have everything with them that you think of, it also becomes a bit difficult to gift. So, check out these 3 ideas that might work out for you.

Group Date:

As these kinds are comfortable with people around them, why not plan a group date! You could use this day to invite that long-distance friend who your boyfriend shares a close attachment with. Or you could plan the day to spend with siblings and their valentines (mind you, you should be comfortable doing it). You could also invite your closest group to spend the day together and finish the day off with dinner at your place. Amidst, don't forget to show your love to your "Him" in front of all and claim him as yours. :P

You take charge of planning the day:

This is the biggest surprise he could receive as he might be used to planning and taking you out on dates. So, why not reverse the roles and plan the entire day to the 't'. You can start by breakfast on bed coupled with a gift and then continue the day by taking him to a gaming zone (Men are boys too!). Then plan a nice lunch at your favorite restaurant and a gift and then move outdoors and wing it. Again, finish off the day with his favorite movie and cook his favorite dish for dinner. Now he knows, how much you love him, isn't it?

Tend to his "Machine man":

You can never go wrong with gifting gadgets to men. Be it an all useful charger or a surge protector, you can get it without hurting your pocket. You can even think of the handhelds or a PS along with some new game DVDs. Or even the best, take him to shop in a gadget store and he becomes like a kid on extra sugar.

Personality Type C -  Perfectionist:

These are the people who strive to achieve an "outstanding" grade in everything they try and can't accept anything lower than that. They are those strict parents one hates but is indeed necessary to have because they care as much too. Instead of dipping their hands in multiple pots, they focus on one thing and achieve perfection. For these people, it's necessary to have a support system that will keep them in this real world and not in the perfection they want to see everywhere.

So why not be the home to your man and keep him in reality! Plan this way for the day ahead and see the love on his face.

Plan the entire Valentine's week ahead:

Right from the start of Valentine's week with the Rose day and leading up to Valentine's day itself, plan a surprise gift each day for him. Make sure he receives it at the same time every day, be it as soon as he gets up or as delivery at lunch or at your regular meetup spot for dinner. The perfectionist in them will definitely feel happy with all the love you shower every day and making the entire week very special. Here is a list of days of Valentine's this year. 

Make your Dinner plans extra special:

The dinner planning for these kinds of people will definitely involve meticulous planning. For that, take your "him" for shopping beforehand and buy that perfect dress you always wanted to buy for him. And then, as a surprise, color-coordinate yours in his favorite attire on you. This may seem like a trivial thing to do, but know for sure, this will definitely get all thumbs-up from him.

And then for dinner itself, if you are 110% sure you can pull it off, make those reservations at your favorite place and arrange a valentine surprise cake. If in any case, you aren't getting reservations, then plan a takeout from your favorite place and concentrate on setting the ambiance right at your place. Make this all a surprise for him and see the sparkle in his eyes for you.

Organize a perfect day out:

The perfectionists are an extension of the Type-A people, but concentrating on mastery of just thing. So basically, they prefer "me time" to that of  "group time". So they are more into doing alone activities like gaming and stuff. Being that perfect you, you know of his hobbies. So getting a gaming console or the latest game or buying a club card into his favorite hobby group would be one perfect gift. Also, things like a camera or a lens that he is eyeing for many days or the book set he is wanting to read would also make nice suggestions. Gift them on the morning of the day and try to spend the day with him unboxing them together. The joy in both of your eyes will light up your life.

Personality Type D - The Sensitive People:

These types of people are very warm and sensitive to others. This makes them very calibrated to their surroundings and the emotions run quite high in them. They tend to worry a lot about the ones they care about and love and but they never let these emotions out. So tending to their emotional side and letting them go carefree could be the mantra of the day.

Make him feel precious:

One best way to make one feel special is to introduce them to important people in your life. May them be your parents (don't take this step too early in your relationship) or your best friends or your colleagues. Make time for him, and if he is an outside loving person, take him on an adventure or plan a tour. It could be in your hometown or away too. But if he likes to stay indoors, make sure he knows his worth by sharing all the things you remember about him. Still best, make a small video using your photos and by compiling a video saying how much you love him. It's the most precious gift one could have, baring your soul is not so easy!

Design the day a bit in and a bit out:

These kinds of people want to be with you the entire time. Although they want to meet and find enjoyment with other people, they want you to be the rock and they do the same with you. So you can plan for bits of meet and group date with a few close friends and then come back to your safe cocoon. This will relax him enough on your special day and then you can follow up with a couple spa and dinner. Make sure to include him in all your plannings as they will want to be in the know-it-all zone in matters concerning to you.

Show him how much you love him:

Gifting something for sensitive persons requires extra care. The on-the-go gifts pale in front of them and going all out makes them feel embarrassed. So criticality lies in striking a balance. Gift something they cherish when alone and couple it with something they can outwardly display. It could be a love letter saying how much of an influence they had over you and how much you love them topped up with a wristwatch or a photo frame.

Finally, remember it's a day for you both to enjoy keeping aside the daily action scenes. So relax, rejuvenate and rejoice.

Let me know what worked out for you in the comments below!

Happy Valentine's 2020!